know the person not the clothes , see the heart and soul , read the hole book and not just the cover x sorry to rant on but it gets to me abit when ive been asked why do i dress x why's it matter x walk with me awhile then see me and not just what i wear x i'll stop now lol cos i sound mad x hugs Pam

I dress cos I am female, trapped in a male body. And it's not fair.

I dress because I have to, I'd rather be nude with pearls and lipstick only, lol. But seriously I dress most of all because I never felt attractive as a man: too short and too scrawny, and until I started dressing properly about 18 months ago I always thought that someone like me would look and feel more natural as a woman (short and scrawny = petite and slim, in my dreams). After waiting far too long to find out, I found out that I love it more than I can say.

I was invited to try by a friend of a friend in a pub when I was single and in my late 20s. To this day I still wonder why I said no...