Adele you have spoken before of this special person in your life. Surely you need to discuss this properly before jumping to conculusions. I mean you are on here perfectly innnocently but you also would find it hard to explain. Dont throw away a relationship before you know the truth xxx

I was angry and hurt that he kept lying to me day in day out. Saying that he was exhausted and was logging off early because he was tired, only to spend the next hour and a half on another site. Or coming online saying he'd just this minute got home, when I'd sat watching him for well over an hour. Just stupid little lies...totally unnecessary.

It's not that he's posting anywhere else, its this constant dripping of little lies that I don't like.

Having said that, I'm missing him desperately and have told him that I love him. No reply.

I shouldn't have brought it up here, but I was raging at the time.

Thanks to everyone for your advice.

Adele

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This post was edited by Deleted Member at December 24, 2012 12:40 PM GMT

Hi Adele,

Sorry to hear about all of this that you've been going through. A few things to remember: he's man so being a prick comes naturally to him; don't tell him you love him or that you miss him until he comes back inline with your expectations and needs as you will give him the OK to carry on this behaviour; finally don't be afraid to be a bit dominant with him sometimes and give him some orders - you're a foxy babe so act like one with him even if it is only acting!

Hope it all goes well,

Nell xxx