Sex while dressed? Same or opposite sex?

  • August 21, 2017 10:35 AM BST
    I have had sex with females whilst en-femme and it has to be my favourite way of doing it. There seems to be more intimacy, as well as all the sensuality of the clothing and make-up... I have almost been with another girl but I bottled it! Still kicking myself as I feel a little unfulfilled.
    I went with a guy when I was very young as an experiment, but it was not a great experience and I didn't even get him aroused, lol. TBH I don't find guys very attractive generally.
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    August 26, 2017 10:49 PM BST
    I would love nothing more than to be treated like a woman by another woman. Just thought of maybe going out shopping and then possibly dinner with a few drinks. Then to finish in the bedroom with me wearing just a camy, panties and a pair of heels with my hair up and of course red lipstick to match my nails. Then as we touch the feel of our underwear rubbing up against each other whilst our tongues go deep into each other's mouth. Finishing with slow beautiful sex.

    How do I find a woman that will do that with me?
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    October 28, 2017 8:56 PM BST
    I know how you feel. I think it is difficult to find the people we are looking for, especially when we don't identify with our biological birth gender and the role models expected by society - but for those of us here who don't wish to change that, when we need to express our female as it is part of us. I think when we are at peace with ourselves and just enjoy being who we are then we are at our most aware of new opportunities. The ordinary things of life seem new and beautiful. I recently felt a load lift and felt like dancing when I put on a new dress that was so me. Sensitivity returns because we are being true to how we express our gender. I love the thought of being with a woman and being loved as a woman when I am en femme. Intimacy is so much more than physical. It is something truly spiritual. I think if we are content and happy in ourselves with who we really are we will attract the right people. That is my guiding hope as someone who enjoys being with women and who always finds it easier to relate to female things. Live your dream.
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    November 10, 2017 2:42 PM GMT
    i really don't mind at all who helps me cum, the true trait of being bi-sexual.
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    October 28, 2018 10:28 PM GMT
    have had sex with men while dressed and it was fantastic, being treated and loved as a woman. first choice for me when I am female.
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    November 7, 2018 9:24 PM GMT
    We met a while back, she was the same sizes has me. I came out to her about my gender problems and we shared an evening getting made up and dressed. Another night we did the same and I brought some clothes and stockings. We were fine until our eyes met and that spark ignited a fantasy of hers, to have sex with another female. Well, it involved oral and toys at first. by the end of this stage, I was in tension down below. My control garments were not happy. She released it from its confinement and we had full on dressed sex. We kept on meeting and doing it until my job changed. She found me on Fb again and She is now married to a guy. But it was interesting and helpful with dressing. Oh, going for a walk was a blast. I had gone to meetings before from home, leaving at night and turning up in the early hours. Had sex with a guy in a Hotel room into CDs and TGs. That was not the first time, but at least fully dressed.
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    November 7, 2018 9:25 PM GMT
    We met a while back, she was the same sizes has me. I came out to her about my gender problems and we shared an evening getting made up and dressed. Another night we did the same and I brought some clothes and stockings. We were fine until our eyes met and that spark ignited a fantasy of hers, to have sex with another female. Well, it involved oral and toys at first. by the end of this stage, I was in tension down below. My control garments were not happy. She released it from its confinement and we had full on dressed sex. We kept on meeting and doing it until my job changed. She found me on Fb again and She is now married to a guy. But it was interesting and helpful with dressing. Oh, going for a walk was a blast. I had gone to meetings before from home, leaving at night and turning up in the early hours. Had sex with a guy in a Hotel room into CDs and TGs. That was not the first time, but at least fully dressed.
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    March 22, 2019 2:51 PM GMT
    I dress firstly to make me feel good in every way I don't do it to impress no one though has been mentioned on this thread you dress like a woman you want to feel like one also so its guys only for me im afraid sexual encounters with other gurls just doesn't do it for me im sorry ladies I have done it twice but was a very long time ago it just didn't feel right.in saying that I have met guys and as soon as I whip it out even they want me to fuck them lol I have told a few to leave my house because of it packing 8 inches of thick welsh meat definitely has its down sides.
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    March 22, 2019 2:53 PM GMT
    I dress firstly to make me feel good in every way I don't do it to impress no one though has been mentioned on this thread you dress like a woman you want to feel like one also so its guys only for me im afraid sexual encounters with other gurls just doesn't do it for me im sorry ladies I have done it twice but was a very long time ago it just didn't feel right.in saying that I have met guys and as soon as I whip it out even they want me to fuck them lol I have told a few to leave my house because of it packing 8 inches of thick welsh meat definitely has its down sides.
    • 11 posts
    August 9, 2019 9:13 AM BST
    Unless I am dressed guys Don, t interest me at all. When I am dressed everything changes and with the right guy it can be very good but I need to be treated as a woman and need lots of foreplay. I have been with other girls and that is often much better because they usually like lots of foreplay too and there is the added thrill of exploring their underwear.

    O have only been with 2 genetic females, both were very good experiences and both later said they had dreamed of sex with another woman and being with a CD girl took them a long way on that journey.
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    October 22, 2019 9:35 PM BST
    I have only had one sexual encounter when fully dressed enfemme with another CD. I arrived at his house (in male mode but wearing panties and bra underneath) and he greeted me wearing a nylon dressing gown over a baby doll nightdress with stockings and panties.
    I changed into my full Joan girly mode with stockings and suspender belt, nightdress, bra with forms and panties. We then had a full sex session exploring each other's bodies and preferences.
    Unfortunately, he never did manage to give me a return visit.