I mostly shop for lingerie and hosiery, so I prefer to go to an actual brick and mortar store. One of the challenges of my wife not knowing I dress is that I can't order online and I pay cash.

always shop in person (as "Helene") including underwear and ofcourse try them in the ladies fiiting room - specially like Debenhams and M+S in U.K for shopping

markets, charity shops or department store. Or you can click & collect from Argos or an Amazon locker. https://www.burleska.co.uk/ the home of fine corsetry
This post was edited by Debbie Dover at June 5, 2020 4:46 PM BST

Amazon has a Slutty Dresses category

I do all my shopping as a woman and ofcourse try in the ladies fitting room!
Like M+S and Debenhams in UK - unfortunately Debenhams now closing!