January 26, 2013 5:38 PM GMT
Thanks Josephne... you're spot on there....
Thanks Jackie... it's down to you, me, EVERYONE to create the view of which we are percieved by the general majority... whilst we all have the right to wear what we want, when we want, where we want; we all have a duty to protect the image of how the public see us for the good of the great... so Walking through Salford in thight boots, fishnets & pvc micro skirt with your balls on show during the day may be 'your right'.. but not the right thing to do
I had a couple of days away from the site or I might have said something which would have got me a certian ban... Homophobia and Xenophobia are recognised in the OED and on the list of recognised Medical/Psychologial conditions which is a "Phobia"...
my point was that a Phobia cannot be wiped out, not way, no how, not ever... and we ALL know attacking someone because they're black, gay or Trans is a hate crime... WE KNOW THAT so why do "WE" need telling
I'm stunned that other members did not have the BALLS to have their say and back me up on this, but instead they sit back and watch me get attacked... which was contradictory on the very subject of which the post was about...
and we must not forget that it's not just attacks on diverse minorities which can be classed as hate crimes... like I've said, I haven't log in for a couple of days and I don't click the box to recieve e-mail replys, so I am not aware of what the comments Gemma left, and I'm really not bothered what Gemma thinks of me, (I wonder how many trans website she's been banned from for not being able to control her mouth)
@ Pauline... Apology accepted..
bottom line.... my last say
If there was a magic wand (it doesn't have to be a pink one covered in glitter) I would wave it as vigorously as I could to creat an "Ideal World"... but unfortunately there is no such wand (although I thought I saw one for sale in Poundland the other day)... so we have to live in a "Realistic World" where there is some nasty, idiotic, arse holes who don't understand us, hate us, even fear us and WE need to be more aware of what we do as we have to share this lovely planet with the numbskulls & Bi-polar, drug abusing, manic depressive, alcoholic, unemployed prostitues... we're all different, and it's exactly that reason why it makes the world such an interesting place to live
January 26, 2013 6:49 PM GMT
Lisa,
Unfortunately I have to disagree with you on several of your points.
Firstly my original post was about hate crime awareness and transphobia, and not about us attacking each other, or about references to dictionary definitions of phobias. Maybe you personally are fortunate enough to know everything there is to know about hate crime, but some of us also think that publicising affirmative action against transphobia and hate crime against TG people may help to prevent it happening - through education - and that others in our community have the right to be informed and make their own choices as to how they feel about such an issue. Maybe transphobia does not impact on all of us every day, or every waking hour, but it is there...and for me personally (I really don't know about others) it helps to know that the Greater Manchester Police do take notice, and take a very serious view of hate crime.
Secondly, the remarks attacking you personally were removed (at my instigation) by Beckie as I had tautologically put myself into a corner and thus couldn't take action as a moderator. And as like you I am not logged on here 24/7 action was taken by the moderating team within 10 minutes of me seeing the posts. Surely you should be pleased about that?
Thirdly the personal feud between Gemma and you should not keep spilling over into forums like this, which happens to be about others hating our community. If it does continue in a personally abusive way towards each other either here or in other places on this site then it will be dealt with by the moderators here. That includes cheap comments towards each other.
Fourthly, maybe you don't personally like a TGirl walking through Salford (or anywhere) dressed in the way you describe. I don't either. But surely they can dress that way if they want? Maybe they are not personally trying to validate the whole TG community, but just trying to shock. I didn't "get" for years why some TGirls didn't dress to pass - till eventually the light bulb lit up and I realized that actually they don't care. Maybe their agenda is different to yours, or mine, and just because we are all part of the TG diaspora it doesn't mean that we have to all be the same and behave in the same way.
Fifthly your final sentence is personally abusive towards another member here. So as of now you have an official warning. Any further personal comments of such a nature will be dealt with by the moderating team.
Pauline Smith ( site administrator)
January 26, 2013 9:07 PM GMT
we need something like anti-tranny in oxford as it is full of ignorant chavs/homophobic slobs. so girls stay safe out there and watch out for each other, and short cuts are not always the safe ones, so i say again stay SAFE love collette XXX.
January 26, 2013 10:45 PM GMT
lol... I have no grudge against Gemma... why would I...? I don't know her, only her reputation... and in my final sentence I have not used any phrase, or words, to refer to another member which they have not used to describe themselves in their own blogs/journals... so not sure where the problem is on that issue...
I'm not sure how scared I should be of the 'official warning' but I'm sure I'll not lose any sleep over it as I've not said anything wrong or defamatory...
I can only be responsible for what I write... not for what you understand