February 19, 2011 9:08 PM GMT
Henry VIII only had 2 headless wives, who were probably the most beautiful, and youngest. What has that got to do with this forum? Nothing. Except, like those 2 after their executions, one couldn't have any sort of meaningful relationship with them.
I agree it is difficut to get into some sort of dialogue without a picture to relate to. I would prefer to have at least one photograph with each member. Someone joining the this site is presumably attempting some social interraction, and not just a private 'ogle'!
I think Beckie's guideline re no bum/tit/pricks as main profile pics is a correct one. There is an opportunity to put raunchy shots if that is your thing, in the gurl naughtiness bit of the site, which could be made members only. Jasmine's comment on the feelings of being a bit "naughty" is a real one, and most T-girls seem to enjoy the tarty look.
I also take Pauline's comment of no face pic, no contact, We 'Girls' don't have to contact anyone, so that can become self policing. Also if you want to respectable and clean, then buy Hello, or some other publication; full of gossip and pictures, and keep away from sites like this.
Also adult albums can be marked as such and restrictions on access can be placed.
Hope the comments have added positively to the debate, and I think that Nicky Miniskirt would enjoy the first comment,
Love Robbi xxx
February 19, 2011 11:57 PM GMT
was it divorced , beheaded, died
divorced, beheaded, survived ?
February 21, 2011 12:20 AM GMT
yes
February 21, 2011 6:35 PM GMT
how can' girl naughtiness' or whatever you decide to dress it up consist of male genitalia- there's nothing girly about a dick. Just makes us look sad
February 21, 2011 6:44 PM GMT
lol Terri, I had to check what I had previously posted, photo-wise before I commented.
I guess it is up to the individual taste, as a crossdresser, I find the feminity in men and myself arousing (TMI?). For some it is about getting the rocks off, and like in my forum, I commented that that is where I thought I was going until I spent more time on Transtastic, and I am realizing, for myself, that it is not all about the "porn star." It is still a sexual activity (dressing) for me but I think it may become a bit less X-rated than when I was younger. Age maybe there is wisdom?
Kisses
Jasmine
PS--I will still gladly contribute and lead all the naughtiness!
February 21, 2011 6:45 PM GMT
Above is in regards to my intro post...
February 27, 2011 6:17 PM GMT
i was invited to this discussion therefore i shall add my opinion!
Im no expert with regards what can or cant be done in terms of moderation although seeing explicit photos should be basically an opt-in choice. How this is done i dont know as moderation by a small group of people over thousands of photos is nigh on impossible. I suppose relying on users to declare x rated photos is a start and then perhaps the flagging facility will 'clean up' the naughty people haha.
Each to their own BUT personally id rather choose whether or not i want to see some flaccid c0ck surrounded by stockings and suspenders belt struggling to contain hairy legs and belly haha.
Decorum please, whatever part of the huge gender/sexual rainbow you identify with!
Michelle x
February 27, 2011 8:13 PM GMT
Delightfully put Ms Delon x
February 27, 2011 8:38 PM GMT
Erm dont quite understand have my photos been moderated didnt think they were that bad they have gone off main page yet others have similar on ???
February 27, 2011 10:32 PM GMT
It might be that some of the main feeds have some sensorship but images will still be on profiles.
Anyway - headless profile pic are fine of course some people are further on this journey and feel able to show themselves more - we are all different.
Interestingly Barbie Video has been viewed more than any other- what does that say? Maybe some should great a poll to gather some opinion.
Still working on the moderated feeds.
X Beckie
February 28, 2011 12:25 AM GMT
not seen the Barbie avideo yet - perhaps we all want to be girls and the ultimate girl figurewise is Barbie - probably reflects what hetro/lesbian girls are attracted to which is a stereotype of feminine perfection, like it or not of course.....
February 28, 2011 3:37 AM GMT
The things you do when you cant sleep anyway to let you know the non-adult album still not showing but adult one is.
February 28, 2011 4:53 PM GMT
Michelle Delon said:i was invited to this discussion therefore i shall add my opinion!
Im no expert with regards what can or cant be done in terms of moderation although seeing explicit photos should be basically an opt-in choice. How this is done i dont know as moderation by a small group of people over thousands of photos is nigh on impossible. I suppose relying on users to declare x rated photos is a start and then perhaps the flagging facility will 'clean up' the naughty people haha.
Each to their own BUT personally id rather choose whether or not i want to see some flaccid c0ck surrounded by stockings and suspenders belt struggling to contain hairy legs and belly haha.
Decorum please, whatever part of the huge gender/sexual rainbow you identify with!
Michelle x
Well stated. I thinks that's what I wanted to say, teehee.
I am sure that our mistress of IT, Becca will eventually find a solution, but I will try my best to ask everyone to post and title albums appropriately.
Kisses all
Jasmine
March 1, 2011 2:08 AM GMT
I have not bought into this discussion yet as I agree with the general gist and direction of opinion expressed by all the girls here.
The fence I'm sitting on is very comfy thank you !
I believe that images and comments of an explicitly sexual nature should be confined to the realms of privacy. Self regulation will always result in some people stepping over the line, so we do need some "Knob Police" to slap some botty's ! Discussions like this are so necessary to define the parameters of acceptance and, indeed, to define the spirit and 'personality' of Transtastic. I am sure Becca would agree that this is a work-in-progress.
Thanks to Robbie for your reference. I know little about Henry the Eighth other than memories of a silly song way back in the distant past.
"I'm 'enery the aif I am, enery the aif I am I am, I got married to the woman next door, she's been married seven times or more, and every one was an 'enery, never a Willy or a Sam, I'm her aif old man named 'enery, 'enry the aif I am!"
Could someone please tell me who sang that awful ditty so I can go around and turn off their life support system ???????
Laughs ? I got 'em coming out of every orifice !!!
March 1, 2011 5:50 PM GMT
...it was herman's hermits by all accounts Nicki. Thanks to google once more!
Oh and i prefer Cindy, much more of a real girl
March 5, 2011 8:16 PM GMT
Oh dear bits are being highly lighted again - it would be so nice if people would self moderate to a decent level - yes have it in your albums if thats what you like but not on the home page it really should not be up here!!!! Idiots!!!
March 12, 2011 8:37 PM GMT
been quiet for a while-no nudes is good nudes
March 13, 2011 4:14 AM GMT
Yeah, Terri, no news is good news. Ha ha !
It is interesting how our morality and acceptance of things said and unsaid change over time.
I can never really understand why sexuality and nudity and any sort of honesty about what is under our clothes or what happens in pleasurable and natural acts of human beings loving each other and their physicality, should be deemed "dirty" or "obscene" or "evil" ? ... As far as I can think, it is a part of our "civilization", ... to have large numbers of humans living together in communes and then villages and so on ... and to ensure that you have fighters to defend your community, you need rules of procreation ?
Religion stepped in and helped the rulers to achieve their armies, .. to fight wars against other megalomaniacs, with their own rules and laws about who can make a new soldier !
All pretty simple if you take a clear eyed look at it.
Your so-called Royal family is one case in point ?