March 13, 2015 6:04 PM GMT
This is for many reasons a good thread.
It's about duplicity (cheating) which is at the heart of being a Tgirl - we are all deceivers in many ways, whether it's fooling ourselves that we look younger and prettier we are, or lying to those that we love!!
Having been found out by my now ex wife I have all of the T shirts for being a tranny and cheating on the love of my life for hiding that I love to dress as a woman.
Since I got divorced in the mid 90s I have explored many facets of being a T girl and have realized after almost 20 years of being "out" that I am not unique in any way....
BUT....peeps like me do try hard to be as honest as we can, and we post pix of ourselves....which are actually of ourselves,,,,,and most importantly - they are recent ones.
As a VERY mature Tgirl of 67 my current profile photo is a recent one and is not one of me from 20 years ago !!! It's one from a few weeks ago. Yes it's never easy to admit that I am old, but surely it is easier to be truthful about who I am.
And that is what is at the heart of photo shopping - CHEATING
Because ultimately those who photo shop their faces onto someone else's body are cheats - and like Maradona with his "hand of god" goal - they only damage their own reputation, because they are cheating. They make it very hard for that majority who try to be as honest as we can.
I have included an old pic of me from the 1990s so that you can see ..... how ugly I was back then.
hugs
Pauline xxxx
This post was edited by Pauline Smith at March 13, 2015 6:16 PM GMT
March 13, 2015 6:54 PM GMT
What a beauty! , Love the classic twinset suit !! xx
March 15, 2015 7:50 PM GMT
Pauline, I agree with you totally - its about honesty. Devon x
March 16, 2015 9:04 PM GMT
I always photoshop my profile pictures but I'm not dishonest..just desperate...honest!
This post was edited by Tim Flannery at March 16, 2015 9:06 PM GMT