February 12, 2016 10:04 PM GMT
Mia Wallace said: ''WTF is a hacker going to want with a picture of some fella, lying about how old he is, dressed in age inappropriate clothing who isnt even showing his face?''
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I'm sorry to have to say this Mia, but i find comments like this in this topic aimed at members in general a little bit offensive or insensitive at the very least. You practically show a contempt for a lot of the members in your descriptions, which makes no sense i know, seeing as you cd yourself, but nonetheless this is definitely how it comes across to me, though i can't speak for others.
I don't know what the relationship is with you and the people who run the site as i know you have been a member for quite a while and come on a lot, but i would ask they take a look at what you have said in this topic, and reprimand you if they consider my concerns valid, but i do find some of your comments quite patronising.
This post was edited by Emily B at February 12, 2016 10:09 PM GMT
February 12, 2016 10:19 PM GMT
Hi Emily,
If you have a complaint to make about Mia's attitude then please raise an abuse report. Perhaps at the same time you could raise one about Jamie and Marissa for hijacking a serious issue her - site security.
This issue was originally raised by Mal and Tina and the owners of the site and I are investigating the site security. Whataboutery comments about other members are not really helpful.
If you have an abuse complaint about Mia Wallace's behaviour then please raise it and it will be handled.
Pauline Smith (site moderating team)
February 12, 2016 10:27 PM GMT
Pauline Smith said: ''Hi Emily,
If you have a complaint to make about Mia's attitude then please raise an abuse report. Perhaps at the same time you could raise one about Jamie and Marissa for hijacking a serious issue her - site security.
This issue was originally raised by Mal and Tina and the owners of the site and I are investigating the site security. Whataboutery comments about other members are not really helpful.
If you have an abuse complaint about Mia Wallace's behaviour then please raise it and it will be handled.
Pauline Smith (site moderating team) ''
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I don't really have anything to say about the security and was only reading it to see what it was about, so don't want to get caught up in that, partially because i don't understand a lot of what was said lol, so wouldn't want to comment with that in mind, but that doesn't mean i don't have a valid concern about other things that were said the thread.
I didn't want to go down the official route, as i was hoping it could be looked at informally, but if that's the only way i can address my concern, then that is what i will do, thank you.
February 12, 2016 10:30 PM GMT
Thank you Emily; there is no other way. We cannot handle something informally
Pauline
February 12, 2016 10:31 PM GMT
Okay, fair enough x