What if I like guys or don't like guys...
What if I like women or don't like women (I'm being ambigous on purpose)

Worse yet, what if they like me.

I have two female lesbian admirers, the lady at work who is pretty butch, not lesbian, well she is married, and something clicks between us, there are sparks between us..., 1 guy at work making sarky comments, oh the bag matches my eyes ( I just don't know if he's being sarky or sincere), a really sweet guy at work (i don't fancy him) he is being really sweet and supportive,

I'm hearing the answer here myself somewhat as I type... I have to just get good at reading people?

but I don't want.

How do I make it clear I'm not interested.

Oh, I mean get me,

Sorry, I am recently out to myself and am experimenting more with what I can get away with and I was ok for a good while there, just in my own little world, but I never really considered this...

If I can say a weird one and I can get your thoughts,

I was in a shopping centre car park, open air, in my car and waiting for someone, so I open a book to read, it is a hot sunny day, and then a guy, middle aged comes over and starts talking to me, "is the book any good?",

sorry, I haven't even started reading it and your interupting me,

Do people usually wander up to strangers in their cars and start talking like that? Am I the baddy here? was He just being friendly?

I think he was just being friendly.