I found the site transoriented dot com formerly. Ths site helps me to understand who am I. I liked the term author use, transoriented man. So I use it to discribe myself.
Anyway. Author of the site made some surveys and studies. He made provisional conclusion and laid out it into points. I would like to know what's your opinion about that?
Here they are:
"1. Over 90% of transoriented men don’t consider themselves to be gay, those who do, consider themselves a different type of gay.
2. Self-identified gays are rarely attracted to transwomen as partners, most feel any feminization is incongruous to their tastes.
3. Often, transoriented men seek out passable transwomen with breast augmentation and who have taken considerable hormones to begin, but find with experience they may prefer transwomen in a less altered or femboy state. (This maybe because it’s not the trappings of femininity that attracts them, but the feminine character.)
4. It’s rare that a man who seeks transwomen evolves into seeking gay men.
5. Transoriented men’s preference for transwomen tends to grow over time and rarely reverts back to a preference for non-trans women.
6. There is a category of men who seek transwomen who have some desire to be a transwoman or cross-dresser themselves, but this is not a common trend among transoriented men.
7. Approximately 20% of transoriented men seek being topped as a preferred form of pleasure with a transwoman.
8. A considerable percentage (30-50%) of transoriented men don’t find topping a necessary requirement in a relationship.
9. Only around 5-10% of transoriented men have a preference for post operative (Sexually Reassigned) transwomen.
10. Most transoriented men currently keep their interest a secret.
11. Many transoriented men are or have been married.
12. Over 95% of transoriented men who like transwomen have never had a serious relationship with one.
13. Most transoriented men’s exposure to transwomen has been via Internet pornography and prostitution.
14. A growing number of men are becoming aware of their transorientation due to internet exposure, pornography in particular.
15. There is not a great deal known about successful relationships between transoriented men and transwomen, though such relationships are becoming increasingly common."