Procrastination...the art of not making decisions

    • 866 posts
    August 30, 2012 1:23 PM BST
    Rowan Pelling recently wrote an article in the BBC about the familiar world of indecision and delaying tactics. It attracted hundreds of emails from other delayers and procrastinators. Have a look at some of their comments....if you like....

    But it struck me that we as Tgirls and admirers sometimes (often in my case) put off decisions about how we could act differently, both here on Transtastic and out in the real world.

    Maybe we should ask that person to be a friend, or chat with them. Perhaps we could make a comment on a blog or a photo, or even write a blog or start a forum....there is a new one about "my dad is a tranny".

    Out there in the "real world" maybe we could tell a friend or relative about being a Tgirl, or go to one of the events that are published here.

    Or even just add a comment about how you manage to delay making decisions...after all we all do that.....

    hugs and kisses

    Pauline xxx
    • 55 posts
    August 30, 2012 1:48 PM BST
    Umm...eh..I'll let you know later..
    • 401 posts
    August 30, 2012 3:26 PM BST
    am i any good at making decisions well yes and no lol joking apart i have found in my lines of work i have a few lol that i need to make a lot of decisions so it has help with all i do in my life as a tgirl hugs xxxxx
    • 14 posts
    August 30, 2012 3:30 PM BST
    I'll look at this now in a minute xx
    • 259 posts
    August 30, 2012 6:03 PM BST
    I find work decisions easy as they don't really affect anyone. But when it comes to home or personal things, I always need more information and when I have that then its obvious what to do, so there is no decision. Why do today what you can put off until tomorrow and then not get in trouble about!
    • 259 posts
    August 30, 2012 6:05 PM BST
    Ok decision made I am going to DRAB drinks. Ext week - well probably.
    • 199 posts
    August 30, 2012 8:58 PM BST
    I can't decide whether to wear black or pink underwear of a night out.... so making a decision about which party ot choose in a general election makes me just go vacant eyed trying to make up my mind!
    • 199 posts
    August 30, 2012 8:59 PM BST
    sorry I mixed up procrastination with indecision...... although now I'm not so sure......I'll reply properly tommorow XXX
    • 235 posts
    August 31, 2012 12:05 AM BST
    Only time will tell X
    • 33 posts
    August 31, 2012 10:46 AM BST
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    • 139 posts
    August 31, 2012 1:32 PM BST
    In the words of Tony Soprano "The only wrong decision, is in-decision."

    You only live once and it's your life - so live it.
    • 14 posts
    August 31, 2012 3:50 PM BST
    You only live twice,Mr Bond
    • 148 posts
    August 31, 2012 9:59 PM BST
    Thought about it, then said sod it.
    • 7 posts
    September 2, 2012 10:42 AM BST
    I am good at making decisions, but its other people that procrastinate & delay them.:-)