June 26, 2012 8:01 AM BST
I agree Lisa, the option of A Line skirts and avoiding V neck tops will work, which why I like and have the retro 50's style dresses and combined with a petticoat makes the illusion of a feminine wasteline complete
I do have to ask Lisa, did you "break" the cincher in? Cinchers require a few weeks of test wearing first, you cant just put it on as it will be very uncomfortable. You have to let your body adjust to its shape, like sitting down and bending can be almost unbearable at first, It took me about a month to get used to the feel of it and as you test wear it, each week you bring it in tighter, wear it only for an hour at most each day and after about a month you'll be able to wear it without really noticing it. Most outlets will tell you not to pull a cincher in if its your first one as it may cause loss of conciousness due to pulling in the diaphram, so its always best to test wear. I have a 30 inch waist and with a cincher, i can pull it right down to 26 inches and feel no discomfort. I dont want to sound like a i am giving a lecture lol but just giving out free advice on how I found the best way to get the best out of it without thinking "well that was a waste of money"