Hi all. I don't even know, whether I am in the right group or not, but I will try and see what comes out from it.

I am a over 65 years old male (or at least I think I am a still a male) whose body is undergoing changes.
Because of medical reasons I am on Finesterride for more than 5 years now, and my body is changing more and more towards the female side, and I don't appreciate this a lot. But I cannot get off of Finesteride unless I would undergo a very complicated and critical surgery.
So, here I am stuck between a rock and a hard place!

For over two years now, I am not able to get an erection, and my penis has shrunk quite a bit during this time (from well over 6" to about 4"). I still can orgasm (if I can grab enough of my penis to rub), but my ejaculate is more or less some almost clear looking fluid, and not very much of it either.

I am also starting to grow breasts, and my biggest problem with those is that my nipples are always erected (and rub pretty uncomfortably on my shirts).

Surprisingly for me, I lately start to think that having a vagina would be much nicer for me than that more or less usable water hose that I have now.

Am I undergoing the changes toward being transsexual? Is this how the other transsexuals here started out to get there?
Can you give me some of your thoughts how I should takle this change that late in my life?

Just curious do you have plans after you get it done? And I hope it goes well

Good day JD
I have no plans for the foreseeable future to have any surgery done. From my medical background, I know that it is a pretty complicated and involved surgery to create an "artificial" vulva/vagina. I don't really know whether it would be worth the while to have something like this done at my age, considering the slowly reducing libido and the complicated surgery.
I know of one person who had it done, and she is happy with it. She was/is married and has three kids. Her wife was very supportive and they stayed married, and the kids have now two mothers.

Good for them if you're interested in dating I'd love to be your first and last

I think we live a little far away for any dating!
I am single, and am not generally against dating, but I am not a CD, and actually do not really want to become female, it just happens to me. I would rather date a female than a male, because I am still very much attracted by females, and I hope that this will necer change!