March 9, 2015 12:35 PM GMT
Gemma, I wasn't implying that all society is against CDing, more so the close nit community I live in is a bit backward, I live in the very far north of Scotland where a CDer may as well carry a banner saying yes I'm a man in a dress, feel free to take the p**s, being outed in such a place would totally ostracise you from everyone else, ok maybe a bit dramatic the way I put it across but I'm sure you see where I'm coming from, certainly the cities are far more liberal when it comes to expressing yourself, that's why I love my visits to them, I do dress and venture out and absolutely love it.
I envy people who basically don't care who knows and who doesn't, personally I want to remain annonimous to prying eyes, what everyone else does is entirely up to them