Hello everyone. My name is Brenda Jansen. The name comes from my male name and the town where I adopted the name, Breda. Mix Ben into it and you get Brenda.

As most of us, I started wearing my mom's lingerie, dresses and heels in my warly teens. Befor ethat, I used towels to create skirts etc. When I left home, I found a girlfriend who was loving it when I dressed up in sexy lingerie and akirts for.her and she did the same for me. Due to selfish treasons, I let her slip away....

Nowadays, I prefer to be.more feminine and strive to be able to pass without any problemy. And it seems to work until I open.my.mouth.... My personality is split in two, I have developed my feminine a d my male.side.equally which has caused.me.to be very much in conflict over the years. I have now come to reLise that ths woman in me is actually atronger so I am slowly moving towards being like 80/20% fem/male.. even thoughthat will cost me.my.marriage

Hello Brenda, nice to meet youx

grusse aus dortmund , willkommen in club x

Hi Brenda and welcome to the site.