September 15, 2014 9:14 AM BST
It is impossible to give a complete or helpful response, only you know you exact situation. You should take your time and discover exactly who you are and how you wish to live your life. Whatever you do is both wrong and right, if you lock yourself away you risk harming yourself mentally, if you come out, some may react in a bad way. Those that care for you will accept you. You will be surprised about who does and who can't. Remember some may take a little time to adjust to the new you.
Life is there to be lived, chaos, good times bad times, success and failure. Don't stress out, just enjoy the ride.
Good Luck.
September 15, 2014 12:22 PM BST
Very profound Toni and 'OH' so true !!
September 17, 2014 6:09 PM BST
Thank you Toni and Alana, I'll find my way :-).
September 17, 2014 8:52 PM BST
Cindy,
What an honest and realistic message. I have never confronted the issue of coming out to girlfriends or partners so I am not qualified to comment.
As for your job, I can speak as a project manager and supervisor for 30 years. Your choice is be a successful worker and then go public, or go public and try to get a job. It should not matter but it does. Unless you are in an industry where sexual identity makes no difference, establish yourself first. When you are an essential member of the company, you can negotiate your own terms. Recruiters will almost always chose the candidate who represents the lowest risk.
September 30, 2014 2:09 PM BST
Thank you Smokey Dee,
:-) I'm glad for the advice in the job department. I needed a bit of hard truth. It's something I already knew, but I needed to hear it again. I think I'll just come out to some close friends and leave it at that. I'm glad I posted this. It gave me time to sort out my feelings. Thank you!