I am new to Transtastic. I have been a secret Cross dresser for many years. now I am on my own I can indulge more frequently at home. I doubt I will ever have the courage to come out and go to clubs or events but for now I love seeing how you girls are enjoying yourselves, looking gorgeous and putting it out there.

"You are now on you are own": that sounds horribly like you are weren't on your own at one time. I do hope that your cross dressing is not the reason for this change of state.
Whatever, may I as a fellow newcomer say "Hello, and I would like to get to know you better"?
This post was edited by Anne Marshall at August 12, 2014 1:12 AM BST

Thanks for your sweet message. I am alone now because my wife died recently. I joined Transtatic to make more contacts to help fill the gap in some small way. Love, Smokey.

Hi Smokey and welcome to the site.
This post was edited by Sabrina T Flowers at August 12, 2014 8:51 PM BST

Thanks Sabrina. Everyone has been so friendly and made me welcome.

Hi Sabrina

Welcome to Transtastic. You should try and go to Leeds First Friday or Manchester Concord - there are plenty of us mature Tgirls around. Plus a few on here as well.

hugs

Pauline xxx

Thanks Pauline, Im way off going out yet. Is there fairy godmother I could meet to prepare me for the ordeal?

Hi hon, Im years away from going large. Can you suggest a godmother who could help me? Yhanks for repling xxx

Hi hon, Im years away from going large. Can you suggest a godmother who could help me? Yhanks for repling xxx

Hi hon, Im years away from going large. Can you suggest a godmother who could help me? Yhanks for repling xxx

Hi hon, Im years away from going large. Can you suggest a godmother who could help me? Yhanks for repling xxx

Sorry folks but this site is so slow that I posted the same thing a millios times.

My best suggestion would be to try Dee Selecta in Bolton which is a drive for you, but she is friendly and will give lots of tips and advice.

Yes its a makeover service, so you have to pay ( about £80 I think), but when starting out it helps to build your confidence by going to a dressing service. Check her banner advert on here or go to her website, if you dont want a makeover you can drive over to see her shop and facilities.
Dee is very friendly and very transgender sensitive; its not a rip off like Transformation. If you do decide to call her, to talk about going then say that Pauline from Transtastic recommended that you contact her.

http://www.deeselecta.co.uk/Pages/default.aspx

hugs


Pauline xxx
This post was edited by Pauline Smith at August 13, 2014 10:04 PM BST

Pauline you are so helpful. Sorry but you will be pestered by me for ages now as I try to go public. Feel free to disown me. Love xxx