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Making progress

  • Posted by Deleted Member September 24, 2014 #Mel  #Partner  #Getting out  546 views
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    So I feel like I'm making a bit of headway with my partner lately.

     

    It all started with the fact that one of our local stores is closing down and everything is going cheaply, so I just up and told her that I may go have a look and see if I could find anything nice for Mel (which I did). Once our son was asleep I even showed her what I bought, which she said she really appreciated as in the past I have bought things and then squirreled them away in my cupboards. We had a bit of a talk and it seems that she would just rather I tell her if I buy anything for Mel than keep it to myself (maybe because she might want to borrow it some day haha)

    Secondly, I may have a chance to get out as Mel in public in November, as there is a charity "Walk a mile in her shoes" thing going on soon to raise money for domestic abuse sufferers, which is a cause I feel rather strongly about, as does my partner. So I'll be doing that, and if I can work up the courage I may just go all the way, either way I know my shoes will fit nicely.

    until next time then

     

    TTFN

     

    Mel xxx

     

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  • stella stiletto amazing how 'coming clean' to your partner seems to actually work out for the best... it doesn't always happen that way but surprisingly more often than not ... it does (I told my wife-to-be when we first dated fifteen years ago about Stella and she's...  more
  • Pauline Smith Glad to hear that you are making progress - walking in her shoes is a great idea. Its never easy to come out to a partner or wife, and most times it ends in tears - if they know from the beginning its always easier. Good luck on the rest of your...  more
  • Deleted Member Well done, such a good cause as well. Strange how some partners/wives take it different ways. I told my wife a year ago, she went nuts as expected, hates it, still does & thinks I can stop just like that. Never going to happen. So well done &...  more
  • Deborah Taylor Even if it all ends horribly, which it sometimes does, honesty really is the best policy, because you are no longer living a lie.