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  • Posted by Deleted Member September 3, 2014 #Going out  #update  #Mel  550 views
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    Hey all

    It's been a long time since I posted anything, but I've been crazy busy with my new job working long hours, and haven't had much time to myself of late. Thankfully my hours are dying down a bit and should all go to plan i'll be getting some more Mel time soon. I've even got around to finally ordering myself that blonde wig I've wanted, plus a few new bits so keep an eye out for the pictures

     

    In other news i'm still no closer to convicing my partner to agree to me going out dressed up for a night, as she recently told me that she's afraid of loosing me and asked me directly where I want all of this to go, to which I replied that i'm not entirely sure, but I'm hapy with who I am for the moment. I'm just struggling to find a way to explain to here that me going out dressed up is purely to give me the chance to find out if I could really pass as a female, and also to give me  little confidence boost, or does that sound a bit strange?

     

    Anyway must dash

     

    TTFN

     

    Mel

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  • Susan M Yes my partner was the same. She was worried that I'd either start transitioning or run off with the first male I saw. The first I could never give an answer to and the second wasn't going to happen. Its perfectly natural for her to worry and you have...  more
  • Elizabeth (Liz) Arlington-Lee Hi Melissa, great comments and yes being patient and allowing your wife to deal with it. Honesty is always the best approach. I'm quite fortunate that Shar is a very understanding partner, wife, friend, rock and most of all my best friend and quite often...  more
  • Deleted Member Thanks for all the wonderful comments, it's good to feel I have some support behind me, not to say my partner isn't supportive cause she's a saint in my eyes, it dies just feel like in spending half my time in the labd of "what-if?" Got a meet...  more
  • Devon Johnson Melissa, I am in a similar position to you with my partner, Carolyn. We have been married 33 years and in May this year I finally told her about Devon. I have had these “feelings” since my teens, but it was all low key stuff, a lipstick, borrowed...  more