frustration of being a secret crossdresser

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    I quit often go clothes shopping wth my wife, She a modern girl and into the days fashion, My probem is,, When I suggest clothes for her tp wear try on what im really saying is, I want to wear this but can't cause you don't know im a crossdresser.

     

    AHH Sorry for the rant, I just an one frustrated girlie,

     

    Debs xx

     

    Its good to talk, any suggestions.

26 comments
  • R Fox Hi Debs. We sometimes say things we don't mean or understand. What you said to your wife was out of your context. You are trying to be subtle and test the water - don't you'll end further in the cave through misunderstanding and intreptations. What is...  more
  • Deleted Member Hi, Debs. I can tell you that I know exactly what you must be going through. I too have hidden the fact that I cross dress to my wife for years. One time she found a gym bag full of women's clothes and shoes in the trunk of my car and went...  more
  • Pauline Smith If she finds out - and she may - who knows what will happen? In my case it was divorce>>> not for cross dressing but for lying and breaking the trust. Ironically 15 years later we are still friends. Its your choice and she wont be...  more
  • Bootsie Anne Taylor The rant is no problem....thats why we are here, here for one another to make informed decisions....whether to come out or not...I have not come out for years but my wife knows of Bootsie....she encourages me to go out with my local friends but I usually...  more