Thoughts

• Posted by Deleted Member August 14, 2012 #  #TV/TS  #TG  #honest opinions!  #Respect  1,130 views
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  I’ve been on this site for a few weeks now and as a fresh pair of eyes, it has given me the opportunity to see just how nasty things are.

   

  When I first came into the site, I created a brief profile and posted photographs into an album to give people an idea of who I am and what I like.

   

  A few days later, by way of an introduction, I posted a blog to say hi, and to give a bit further information about my own experiences and what I’ve been through to get to this stage in my life which by and large was very well received and for that I thank those who took the time to comment.

   

  However, over the last few weeks I have seen how poisonous some people on this site can be towards others.

   

  I didn’t post my blog to look for sympathy, I made my decisions as to how my life should proceed, and if people want to comment then they should be entitled to do so without being subjected to condemnation by others who seem to feel that the only opinion that matters is theirs and who want to make a competition of things.

   

  I have also noticed intolerance by some towards girls on here who work as Escorts or as some like to put it…Prostitutes.

   

  I have worked for the last four years as a Pro Domme, so although I may not offer the same sexual services as those who define themselves as an Escort/Prostitute, I do offer services for cash, so I would like to take those who have a problem with that to come along and say it to my face, or shut the **** up. I do not tell you how to live your life, I do not judge your fantasies or how you behave, grant myself and others on here Professional or otherwise, with that same courtesy.

   

  I have acted as big sister to many girls across the UK, whether they were TVs looking for support for their first times out, or TS looking to take their first tentative steps on the road to transition and who were/are looking for a shoulder to cry on when things go wrong, or a hand to hold when coming out to what can be a very, very scary and judgemental world.

   

  Regardless of whether you are TV/TS or whatever label you decide to place upon yourself, it makes no difference. We are all individuals with our own needs and our own stories.

   

  When it comes down to it, we are all looking to be accepted for whom we are and what we do, regardless of how we define ourselves and to be treated with respect and dignity, but how can we expect to receive this respect and dignity from others when many on here can’t even respect each other.

   

  Here endeth the first lesson.