5 things that a man first notices about a Tgirl

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    How to make a great Impression,

     

    First Impressions matter. Love at first sight might be a myth, but those first few moments are vital when your out to impress. People can't help but form an immediate opinion of you based on your appearance, your body language and the way that you are dressed, and this opinion helps to detirmine weather they hang around long enough to get to know you better - and on the internet this is 100 times more relevant.

     

    Some first impressions matter more than others, particularly when your meeting Tgirls, or just browsing through profiles. A recent survey found that three-quarters of men notice a womans hair first, wheras only a handful mentioned clothes. This is something to bear in mind the next time that you are wondering weather to spend £50 on a haircut, new wig or a dress.

     

    Read on to find out which things men see first when they look at you or your profile, and how this can help you in the dating game.

     

    1. Your hair.

    Hair takes the top spot for a number of reasons. First its easy to spot. You may have a bottom that would make most girls weep with envy, but it is unlikely to be the first thing that men notice, unless of course its your profile pic, or you spend all your time bent over.

    Men dont just glance at a swooshy, shiny mane of hair and then move on to other assets. They glance at it, and then keep on glancing. Long hair in good condition, well brushed and clean is VERY sexy, as is short hair with a sleek or fashionable cut. Its a potent symbol of feminity that screams out to be touched. It also shows that you look after yourselkf and taqke pride in your appearance - qualities that most men rate very hightly indeed. That siad, you dont want to look high maintenance, so dont overdo the products or extreme styling. Just keep your hair (wig) clean and in good conditionand invest in one that suits your style and features.

    Dont feel pressured to cut your hair just because your not in your twenties, or because Emma Watson cut hers - only an exceptionally elfin face can carry off a drastic buzz cut. Most of you benifit from a glossy frame of hair, and the right style can work magic on balancing your facial features.

     

    2. Your Eyes.

    If your hair is your face's frame, then your eyes are its windows. Grown men can be hypnotised by a swoosh of beautiful hair followed by knockout eye contact. Eyes are so powerful because they are about direct communication, and eye contact enables you to make an instant connection with a stranger, and also shows confidence.

    Make the most of your eyes by getting used to making and maintaining eye contact, it can od course be difficult if you are a shy type, but the results can be very powerful. Learn a few tricks of the make up trade. Good make up and well shaped eyebrows can make your eyes extraordinary. but too much has the opposite effect.

     

    3. Your Shoes.

    Hair, eyes...... shouldn't the smile come next? Actually no, not according to the men in the survey. When asked what they noticed next, the men were keen to mention the importance of stylish footwear. Particularly high heels and boots.

    High heels will catch a mans eye because they give you a sexy edge and improve your posture and the shape of your legs - but only if you can walk in them properly. Uncomfortable heels, like too much make up, do more harm than good.

    While men might not be so good at either matching footwear and clothes, or even colours, they do notice when you do.

     

    4. Your Smile.

    Smile at him, and that when he really sees your face. He wont notice the slight crookedness of your teeth, the chapped bit on your lip, the spot that appeared this morning, or even a slither of food stuck in your teeth - what he sees is the scincerity and friendliness of your smile.

    Meet his eye when you do it and he will find it impossible not to smile back - and thats about the best first impression you can make.

     

    5. Your Body.

    Men do notice a girls body. Theyn cant help it. Thats not to say that men judge you on your body shape as soon as you walk into a room, or they look at your full frontal pic online - its just that they cant help looking at it. Think about what you look at when you see someone either in person or online.

    What are they looking for? - well its to see if you are comfortable with your body and your style - so be sure to dress in a way that shows off your best assets, but leaves a little something to the imagination.

    If you worry about the size of your tummy, thighs, arms and so on - dont dispair. Every Tgirl has something about themselves that they would like to change, but the good news is that most men wont notice the bits that you do - they are just happy at the prospect of seeing you naked. Embrace your femininity and go out with confidence.

    Just remember that your Hair, Eyes, Shoes, Smile and Body are already doing a lot of the talking for you.

     

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