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  • Posted by Deleted Member October 12, 2011 #  781 views
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    Hi there everyone just me again. Over the last week I have been trying to work out what I am. I like girls, guys and especially T-Girls. Bi, yes but what does one do when faced with those around you who wouldn't understand this and you just want to be you? Is it that I'm still hiding in the closet? Am I protecting them or me? Am I scared of the response by them? Those who know me closely know I'm crazy (but harmless) which isn't far from the truth and are rarely shocked by my lifestyle, but??? Honestly, I'd love nothing more than a close relationship with a beautiful sexy T-Girl who I could look after and take care of but, one, I need to find her first and how would my daughter react is my biggest fear. What I have to give and share, is now weighing on my mind more so than ever. I feel I deserve to be totally happy in my lifestyle and who I choose to have as my partner shouldn't matter to others as long as I'm happy. What to do??????
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  • Deleted Member Best advice that anybody ever gave me about coming out was this: Those who mind don't matter; Those who matter won't mind. Your daughter quite clearly loves you and it is very likely that she is already clued in about your sexual preferences. If not...  more
  • Deleted Member Wow, comments have a word limit. Okay, trying to piece that back together! ... no relevant say in the matter. You will probably find that the first step in coming out is the hardest one but every step after will be easier when you come to realise that...  more
  • Deleted Member Thank you beautifuls for the advice, coming out of the closet, strange thing is my closest friends and one of my sisters know all, but as you say careful of the young one is who I'd say would be the most understanding lol but again if I was going to get...  more
  • Deleted Member I have plenty of first-hand experience in it. I was surprised at some of the people who understood and accepted me when I thought that they would not - and also surprised at some of the people who I had thought would accept it but did not. Not many of...  more