TG /TV /CD and the community

• Posted by Deleted Member June 18, 2013 789 views
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  I have not posted a blog for some time now , and i know this will make some mad as hell . Some will say fair point, and some will say she stuck up her own bum . The aim of this blog is to provoke thought .

   

  I have just read several blogs and comments about LGBT and is the T there or not. Well lets just start with that . Yes it is but in very small numbers , as some of you might know im a very out girl living working and helping out where i can . So i have some experiance of whats is going on . First Tgirls and pride , yes we are part of it and tes were welcome . But how many go along very few indeed , at Exeter pride i ran 2 workshops on trans issues at the request of the pride commity . Well 12 to the first one 7 to the secound one . It was estimated that some 3000 people attened the day so you do the maths . Why they dont attend could be any number of reasons . I am also on the rivera pride commity as the lone T in LGBT and im pushing hard for the girls , but i know when we hold events that very few will show up and support it . Why bother you may ask ?

   

  Simple its my way i like to help and raise awearness . But this small community never helps its self ,they sit in corners and only talk to there fellow girls .They dont interact very well , and most of all an auful lot just dont dress for the occasion . When was the last time you saw a CIS woman around 50 years old about 16 stone wearing a mini skirt 4" heels and stockings in a pub ? And what do the LGB think of this . Not a lot is the answear oh and then proclaim to be straight but want sex with the T girl next to them . I have had gay guys lesbians talk to me and ask what is that all about . So what should i tell them ?

   

  We have sparkle coming up soon just take 5 mins out and sit and watch the world go by try and spot the CIS woman and the CD yes its easy we all know that and why , we all want acceptance and we all want to do what we want when we want to but so long as T girls walk round in underwear the genral public will look on and say what is that about . Im not hear to tell you to dress like your granny no way but dont expect the worl to say oh hi and welcome you with open arms if you dress like a tart . 

   

  Now i know i have upset a lot on here by writing this and it is just a view so please dont think im having a go at anyone its just a social commet , and one that i feel needs expresing . So may be next time your in the pub club or were ever you happen to go try chatting to the other people in there try looking in a mirror before you leave home , and remember . We as a comminity are as good as our weakest link . 

   

  Thank you for reading this and sorry its a bit on the long side , but i felt it needed saying . 

  Becky