Pre / Post opp leaving the sceen

• Posted by Deleted Member April 19, 2013 953 views
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  Its been some time since i worte a blog on here , as life has been very busy . But i was talking with friends the other day about all things trans , and one of the guys said why dont we see very many pre or post opp girls at tv clubs or venues . My first thoughts were well there arnt that many of us out there when you compare numbers to tv / cd .But then we talked some more and looked at people we knew over the years . 

  The conclusion we came up with right or wrong is . That as one starts to live full time we strive to join the world as the person we have always been but could not be for what ever reason . So we start to live work eat sleep as a woman, and by doing this we hope to fit in . We all know its not that simple . But we try , so as time passes we find that our dress secens changes and what we do changes as well . By doing this and with luck we get to the stage that we pass in our day to day life . Now once you got here we come to what i call the weakest link , that is as a group we are judged by the weakest link . So there you are a year or so living as a woman no probs and you then go to a club with lots of tv /cd and you find you no longer fit in . Now i know some will disagree with this and some stay in the comunity for a long time .But to prove my point how many post opp girlss go to things like candy girls / legs or any of the other clubs like that . Very very few . 

  I know some will say oh your all up your selfs , well i dont agree with that yes some are but not many . I think its all to do with how the public see us . I know from a lot of the work iv done in trans awearness down here in devon that a lot of people think transgender people are men in frocks looking for sex . We know this is not the case but they dont . 

  So what was the point of this blog . Well to see what people thought about my veiws as id hate to be saying the wrong thing to people when chatting about things like this and 2nd to see what you all thought as to why pre and post opp girls just leave the sceen . 

  Im sure il get some varied response so it could be interesting to read them . Thanks for reading my ramberlings .