None Event

• Posted by Deleted Member July 18, 2012 #  1,248 views
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  The None Event

  So Stephanie wanted to experience being taken out by a guy and being treated like a lady. So after chatting with a guy over a period of time on Facebook, I agreed to meet for a drink and go for a meal. I made it clear that I had no interest in a relationship but could meet as friends. Just two people enjoying each other’s company chatting and getting to know each other.  Well the day arrived I spent a couple of hours getting ready then it was time to make tracks. Feeling confident I made my way to the bus stop and waited for my bus. Two buses and a train ride later I arrived at Baker Street some 20 minutes early. Well my date for the evening arrived about 5 minutes later he greeted me with a kiss on the cheek and we made our way to a bar close by. I felt at ease and found a table while he got us drinks. Well we started making small talk but noticed he had quickly finished his drink. Put it down to nerves as he went to the bar to order another drink. Well we were going to get a cab and go to another bar in Soho, but when he returned with his second drink he told me that he felt uncomfortable. Whether it was me or the reality had set in and the fantasy of going out with a Tgirl, or being seen with one unnerved him I guess I will never really know. So he made his apologies and escorted me to my bus stop and we departed amicably. So I made my merry way home stopping off at the Chinese for a takeout.  So was I disappointed with the outcome slightly, but not surprised. I suppose it was a bonus that the guy even showed up or even stayed for a drink. Will I do it again may be, but it’s not something that’s important in my life at the moment.

  I guess this sort of thing happens a lot, guys like the idea of taking a Tgirl out. But when the opportunity arises for whatever reason the guys get cold feet or the actual reality of being in ones presence makes them uncomfortable, embarrassed or worried about being seen with one.

  So the evening was not a total waste, it was good for my confidence to travel around by myself and not feel like a freak.