Sexual Healing

• Posted by The Artist D November 2, 2011 #sex  #tranny porn  #porn  #masturbation  #attraction  2,553 views
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  This may sound terribly old fashioned of me but ... why do people have to turn every forum into a sexually driven one? I like when people had a rapport without showing their ass. Are people so desperate for intimacy that they have to trample toward it at every turn on the Internet? Why is it that we can't just take stunning pictures of ourselves and have people comment how gorgeous we are? That's all. Just, "you're gorgeous!" Not, "oh baby I wanna..." followed by grunting noises. 
  
  Every website I belong to eventually goes down that road. Sooner or later there will be a group or a thread or a feed which slowly takes over an entire website's meaning. Like flickR and the transgendered community. It's all very porn oriented. It's hard to find a trans person on there who just posts pictures of their life in a non sexual way. There's always asses and tits and dripping things and "hey baby" and "what I would DO with those lips ..."
  
  Ok, ok, before you say it, I'll say it. Yes, I have a photo of my husband spanking me on many of my profiles. But we're fully dressed and it's practically a G-Rated advertisement in today's society. I guess what I'm saying here is there is a huge difference between images dripping with innuendo provocatively than a photo of someone with a carrot up their twat.
  
  I never thought I'd say this but leave something to the imagination, would you!? And why I'm saying this is that if I'M saying it, there's GOT to be something wrong. I am an ex-dominatrix with provocative pictures whom hosts a weekly adult-only radio broadcast in which has covered some very disgusting or scandalous topics. But yet that is not as bad as every forum turning into some sex-laden "hey baby" forum.
  
  My penis has never been photographed and yet I am considered adult entertainment. I just don't get the drooling hours spent online flirting with people you just want to use as pornography. I enjoy educated lengthy discussions. I am fine with sexy photos of the glamorous nature or some light flirtation leading to private discussions of getting to know each other. It's how I've met all of my husbands, but it's always light public Internet flirtation followed by whatever else in private. 
  
  I've always felt that way. I've never enjoyed the full out drooling of strangers or my friends having to show off their bits and pieces for attention. Especially since I can have all the attention I want and never have to mindlessly flop about pornographically. There's a place for everything. I love porn. But when I want to look at it I'd rather not be on a forum where people know me when I'm NOT horny and when I'm trying to have a conversation. Because what does it do then? I'm talking about the weather and someone would say, "hey baby, saw you jacking on cam last night, wanna do it again?" No, I'm talking about the weather!
  
  This is one of the few times I'd compare the Internet to the real world. Just like the real world there are places to have sex and there are places to have a cup of tea and read a book. They don't put both venues in the same room. They don't usually mix well. I prefer my Internet the same way. A website where I can have real discussions and a website where I can mindlessly indulge myself in fantasy. I'd rather they not mix. It really bugs me.