Blending and Feminine Sexuality

• Posted by Julie Hawkwood July 31, 2014 3,923 views
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  They say that to pass, we should blend in. I often observe real women of my age (stop
  it!) and what they look like, what they wear. Truth is, there is no single
  stereotype to copy. Women, thank the goddess, do not blend into each other. BUT
  there is a certain stereotype out there I can aspire too. She is sophisticated,
  blonde and of a certain age.

   

  So to blend, I should look like women my own age, whatever that is. It could be
  my sophisticated blonde, it could be a mumsy mum. It's a tricky call!

   

  So how to blend on these hot summer days? I saw a tranny in M&S the other day,
  she looked great: a nicely styled wig and it's hard to do an updo with a wig but
  then she wore a dark top up to her neck, a black business suit, black opaque
  tights and black shoes. All you could see of her was her face. The eye was drawn
  to her face and to another tranny, she was read straight away.

   

  I wondered, they tell us not to be tarty, to blend. Not too much leg, not too big a chest. I wondered if that tranny had nude tights, showed more leg, showed more chest then the eye would be drawn to very feminine features and passing would be easier?

   

  Showing some flesh? Showing some sexuality would blend? Many women wear low cut
  tops, a womans clothing neckline is different from mens, they unbutton some blouse buttons, show off nice tanned legs. Many women look sexy and sensual to a male eye without even trying. Maybe a little sexiness, a frisson of sensualness is better for passing? And if you've got it, flaunt it? Without going daft!

   

  You can blend, pass and be a woman with a little sexuality?

   

  Jules x